You show that you are confident because you aren’t waiting for them to boost your ego with kind words. Instead of waiting for him to make you feel special, make him feel confident with a great compliment. You’re inquiring because you would like to see him again and that is the confidence he needs to move the relationship forward. Hopefully your friends will paint you in a great light and impress this man the way he would want his friends to impress you.
Some people might call this a game but dating a game. Give each other space and when you be together enjoy it.
If you don’t play by the rules then you risk losing a man to a woman who does. Sometimes women fear that their man is seeing other women, but you can see other men.
You can make it as easy as need be without seeming obvious. Your only job is to welcome the interaction by being inviting and light-hearted.
Some people might say, well, what does it matter who talks to who? This is advice taken from the infamous self-help book ‘The Rules’ and I believe that it works.
You watch women – even women who’re around pass you by to date taller men. But you know what’s unattractive on aspect of your life.