Everybody makes mistakes — that’s just part of learning.
But it doesn’t make sense to keep doing something that feels wrong to you.
Abstinence is a harder promise to keep as you get older because there’s so much pressure to be sexually active. They’ll help you keep your promise.” Anyone you’re seriously thinking about having sex with should be someone you can talk to about it.
Talk about what kind of birth control you would use to protect yourselves from pregnancy and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases, also called sexually transmitted infections).
That way you can leave if you start to feel uncomfortable.